Before the Hearing

 

In the lead-up to your hearing, you will usually receive a Notice of Hearing confirming the date, time and location. You may also need to prepare and submit documents in advance, depending on your case.

It’s important to read everything carefully and understand the key issues being decided. Rather than trying to cover every detail, focus on what outcome you are asking the court to make and why.

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Arriving at Court

 

On the day of your hearing, aim to arrive at least 30–60 minutes early. You will need to go through security and locate your courtroom before checking in with the usher.

Delays are common, so it is normal to spend some time waiting before your case is called.

Family courts are generally less formal than many people expect, but it can still feel unfamiliar if it is your first time attending.

 

Before Going Into the Hearing

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Before entering the courtroom, you may be expected to speak with the other party or their solicitor to see whether any issues can be agreed in advance. This is particularly common in financial and child arrangement cases.

Even partial agreement can reduce the time spent in front of the judge and help move the case forward.

 

Inside the Courtroom

 

Most family hearings take place in a private room rather than a formal courtroom. The judge will usually lead the discussion, asking questions and focusing on the key issues in your case.

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You will have the opportunity to explain your position, but the process is typically more focused on resolving matters than making long arguments.

 

What the Judge Will Focus On

 

The judge’s role is to make a fair and reasonable decision based on the evidence.

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In children cases, the court’s primary concern is the child’s welfare. In financial cases, the judge will consider factors such as income, housing needs and what is fair for both parties moving forward.

 

After the Hearing

 

At the end of the hearing, the judge may make a decision immediately or give directions for the next stage of the case.

You will usually receive a written order confirming what has been decided and what happens next.

 

What to Wear to a Family Court Hearing

 

It’s normal to feel unsure about what to wear. Family court is less formal than many people expect, and a suit is not required. The aim is to look neat, respectful and comfortable.

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A good guideline is smart, office-style clothing—something you feel confident in and can wear for several hours.

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As a general guide:

• Choose clean, smart, comfortable clothing

• Avoid denim, trainers, sportswear or overly casual outfits

• Avoid very revealing clothing

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Court buildings can also be unpredictable in terms of temperature, with heating and air conditioning often inconsistent. It can feel very warm or quite cold, so it’s a good idea to bring an extra layer.

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The court is not judging your appearance, but presenting yourself in a considered and respectful way helps create a positive first impression, particularly in children cases.

 

What to Bring to a Family Court Hearing

 

Being prepared on the day can make a significant difference, particularly as hearings often involve waiting, last-minute discussions and reviewing documents.

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Bring a notebook and pen to take notes during the hearing. A highlighter or coloured pen can also be useful for marking key points.

If you are attending a financial hearing, particularly an FDR, it is advisable to bring a calculator, as you are usually not able to use your phone in the courtroom.

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Court days can be long and unpredictable. Hearings are often delayed or paused for discussions, and lunch is not always guaranteed. Bringing a water bottle and snacks for breaks can help you stay focused.

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It is also sensible to bring tissues, as court hearings can be emotional.

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If you plan to provide any additional documents, bring two copies—one for the court and one for the other party. A printed version of your bundle is often easier to work from than a digital version.

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A laptop or tablet can be helpful but is not essential.

 

Parking and Travel

 

It’s important to check parking arrangements at your court in advance to ensure you can arrive on time. Many courts have limited parking nearby, and some are located in busy areas where parking can be restricted.

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Although your hearing may be listed for a specific time, court days are often unpredictable. What is scheduled as a short hearing can easily take several hours, or even a full day, due to delays or adjournments for negotiations.

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For this reason, it’s advisable to book parking for the full day or ensure that you can extend your parking if needed. Having to leave court to move your car can be disruptive and add unnecessary stress.

 

Support at Your Hearing

 

If you are representing yourself, you do not have to manage everything alone.

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A McKenzie Friend can support you by helping you prepare, explaining what to expect, and providing calm, practical support during the hearing. This can include taking notes, helping you stay focused, and supporting discussions outside the courtroom.

 

Next Steps

 

If you have a hearing coming up and would like support, you can book a free initial call to discuss your situation and understand how I can help you prepare.